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Oh and and and did i mention that i'm alreayd level 30 in maplestory le??

Yippie!!!!

On to more monsters!!

Good Makan Habits

Interesting stuff for my baby to read.

About healthy eating and and 5 key principles for every meal!

Oh did i mention that i'm STILL craving for bak kut teh?

!!!!!!!!!

flu day

Was bounded at home today. Down with the ah-chooOo bug. Sleep and sleep and sleep and played maplestory hehe.. Gaining conscious now le. Just msged baby to see whether she's prepping to go home yet. She said that she has good news to tell me!! :) Excited neh!!

Nick and family were featured in today's straits time, they looked good man!

The weather has been gloomy whole of today, threatening to rain since morning. I can hear thunder rumbling now again... hope the weather will be fine, cos pple going back home le... let them cheer up!! Dun wan gloominess now that it's knock off time~!

Aachhooooe!

Had a good break with baby yesterday, with minty tiger balm and aloe vera moisturiser massages.. haha.

We had a wonderful breakfast at BK's and laze there reading newspaper. Pretty much like retired life hor? Relaxed, take things easy, when we're old and then continue the day with things we like to do... shiok!

Then we came home to watch 突然发财 and 童梦奇缘, with nice nice shiok shiok massages in between. Bb's really good at leg massages! Ease my muscle aches by alot ne! Erm i think i'm not bad too? Hehe..

We didn't have a satisfying dinner last night. Well it was filling, but quite disappointing. Cos in the first place we didn't have the grilled stingray that we wanted, and 2ndly, all the other dishes that we ordered were a little too salty. Thirsty sia!

Today we went Siam Kitchen for dinner... woah... everything were too spicy this time round.. haha... both of us are now bloated with water!

Dear were telling me about how ungenntlemanly the male bosses at her work place behaves. Not the kind of attitude that should be portray by a boss figure. As i was telling her, guys nowadays dun know how to dote a lady, we should dote on ourselves, since only we know how we wanna be treated. The male species..... blaaah~!

And, Jazz and Su and their love nest! Awwww.... Congrats! Something to work towards to for us... Dreams are meant to be realised...

I keep achooing leh... sense a flu bug coming~~

And no matter how tired we are... i will have the strength to carry on whenever i turn my head and see you beside.

We will go through the same rough patch, enjoy the same beautiful scenery, enjoy the welcoming breeze, enjoying the sweet gatorade, enjoying the cheers of the spectators, and even enjoying the muscle aches, because these, we do it together. No matter hardship or enjoyments.

Our Victory

I didn't know about the several break up cases until dear told me and she was rather upset by it. Damn... sigh... didn't know that it could cause a pessimism in her....

Maintaining a relationship is like running a marathon. Nobody is born an athlete or perfect lover. We all learn these things along the way in life.

We learn to fall and pick up ourselves
We learn to forgive and forget -
We learn to tolerate - the muscle aches and the irritating things she do to make you angry

ALL these theories applicable to Life, Relationship and running a Marathon.

Being young does have its ups and downs.

You're carefree, without a worry in the world. You can love and hate as you wish. You're still young, you can afford to choose and dump those whom you not fancy. You have all the time in the world to take your pick. To experience love and decide what you like or loathe.

The cons? Maybe immature and not able to handle mistakes and hardship and the ability to tolerate and forgive and forget and may lose a good partner because of these.

Some things go and never come back...

Some things only happen once in a lifetime.

Like time...

You are all that i ever want...

The only one i can picture sharing the rest of my life with..

Openness, tolerance, give & take, compromisation, a shared vision and most importantly, love.

It's not about the whole queer thingy.... every couple, straight or not, goes through the same things. Life and relationship is a long long marathon. You can choose to drop out of the marathon halfway due to the upslope or gruesome terrain or screaming muscles, and you'll never make it to the end point to achieve the glory. And to be true... once you are accustomed to the fact that you think you can't do it, it will be the same for every marathon to come. And you'll get used to the fact that thinking that you can't make it, and the tendency to drop out every time will definitely be there. It's all in the mind....

To be honest, this whole marathon thingy means alot alot alot to me. Cos i never would have been able to complete it last yr if not for her. I would never have done it alone by myself. How could i have persevere without her by my side? That's why the run means alot to me. It proves to me that my mind can be over my body condition and at the same time, not without my perfect companion by my side. I was very happy last yr that i made it. And more happy cos i found the theory to be so much applicable in life and in the relationship between beibei and me.

We actually overtook ALOT of runners along the way. And mind you, more than 90% were fit looking men. Like i've said before, it's all about mind over body. It's whether you think you can do it or not. The feeling is very shiok knowing although we were not physically stronger than these pple, but, we were mentally so much stronger than them.

Victory belongs only to those pple who persevere.... baby... we are one of them... tested and proven....

You know, our aim is not to come in first in the marathon. Our vision is to reach the finishing line, ultimately, no matter how long it takes, to cross the finishing line, together.

I quote:
i am 34 ..technically 33 Been with my gal for 5yrs going 6. its my 1st serious relationship n as i think back on how we kept this going, my only clue is communication. sounds cliche i know but its true in my case. we make sure we trash out any ill feelings, share our innermost thoughts, any silly jokes etc. we may not share alot of common interest but we learn to compromise and appreciate the difference. to me, no harm done to learn new things.

asked my gal the same question too, 0j6. where do we go from here? we dont stay together. so, our next step is getting a roof over our head. we set short n long term goal that is attainable.

hope the above makes sense.

2Queens

p/s - i was quite lost for direction in life and a friend enlighten me by telling me to not think of what i want in life instead think of what you don't want in life. its easier sometimes to think the opposite way.

News

Erm.... Ouch.

Worth it ma? Think....

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"We must not let this happen. My simple message to Singaporeans is this - build families and have more babies, stay connected wherever you are and welcome those who wish to make Singapore their home as you would do to your friends and relatives."

What are we? Baby making machines? Super condemn that degrading remark. If you can't convince me, you will only make me wanna rebel. Social norms. Tsk. Shallow. Hate all that baby bonus kind of shit. Only money-faced pple will be led by that money bait. Having a baby is a heavy life time commitment pls. Think of the consequences before you r lured by the temporary perks. Sensitive issues should be addressed more tactfully. Wth.

Happeee mee!

Me on leave today!

Had a good rest and brought baby to shopshop. Closed door sale at tangs today. Quite alot of pple. Not much things to buy for me. Baby says it'll be easy to spend her $150 voucher there though haha.

1003 was talking about the russian plane crash just now. And how researchers were unable to find bodies, plane debris and the black box. Read the report to find out more. Apparently they have found a few bodies. As the crash happened on a swampy area, the search for debris was made very difficult. A very sad accident with 170 fatalities including the air crew. May they rest in peace.

Interrupt: Mum made fruit juice out of papaya + green apple today. Hehehe. Thanks mummy!

Poor mum gotta wake up at 0430hrs to wake me up for work for the past few days. Think she almost suffer a nervous breakdown for the stress ba! Yeah she suffer from the nervous breakdown and not me, weird huh?! I'm so bochup that i can't even wake myself up! Oh.. but this time round i kinda did la. Got jumpy the moment my hp alarm sounded off. Hehe... i'm improving le. Oops.. but cannot be complacent!

Tomorrow gotta wake up early AGAIN to go office take number tag.... *^%^%E&$E^%#!$^*.....

Hope dear rest well today cos i deprive her of her noon nap today.. keke.... muuuacks!!! just now give kiss kiss as compensation le!! Hehe....

the next big thing:: the run on sunday.... everything will do fine as long as we hydrate ourselves well!!

oh another thing, a wasted trip to borders today. wanted to get sq21, TO NO AVAIL! Duh!!!

Nice lunch @ magic wok today! :)

Happeeeeee!!!!

Support the brave souls, who are true to their hearts.

Cheers

Honesty and commitment

So, "what i do not know won't hurt me" is not so true afterall eh?

"what i do not know won't hurt me" will only applease you for that moment. In the long run, it does more harm than love. Lesson learnt from X's experience?

Sigh. When two pple can't be trueful to each other, why are they sharing their life together?

Barry White saves the day. Thanks X.

Ally mcbeal - Barry White's dance

Good old times which kept me at home on tuesday nights. Wonderful wonderful series which brings the dreams out of pple....

Kenny and Me and My FeiBY

We went Kenny Roger's just now!!! So full siah... we specially drove to town in search of Kenny Roger's. Was hoping Marina Square's branch is still alive and luckily it is! And more posh now! And no longer the cookhouse style of self-serving!! Haha! Perfect for lazy me and lazy BB!

Want to watch "Click" and "The Break Up". In that sequence. Click more important cos it's going to disappear from local movie scene soon i think?

Both of us are feeling so thirsty now after the heavy dinner. Must be the chicken skin, the chokeful of yummy salty spice on it.

The area was packed with pple and cars. Woah... a little too exciting for our usual friday nights out. Prefer the laidback kind, without any jostling or battle with neighbouring cars.

My lovely one... :) it's so nice just ot be thinking of her now... u sleeping le ma? Hugz... she has a very huggable look when she sleeps... the type of look when you just wanna take care of... but it's been errr a long time since i saw tat look. Cos i'm always the first to sleep and last to wake up and i never wake up in between sleep for pee break.. haha.

Good the night le baby!

Ramblings

Need to get a shaver!!!! My legs - a dense forest~!!!

As they say, unity is strength. Why then last night he has to do that again? I dun understand. Why can't we do things as a family? Why does he prefer to be a loner and do it himself? He should understand the logic... where got inidividually start their own fire and start burning away one? Wtf.... i'm such a bitch.

Last night attended a talk by S PI... eager to talk about it. But the pple eager to know, i'm not eager to tell. The pple i'm eager to tell, they are not eager to know. Darn.

When these souls appear, they need to suck in energy to gather strength to exist. During the sucking in of surrounding energy, they'll create a cold spot in the atmosphere. Sometimes when you are walking, sweating like mad and when you pass by a cold spot, you'll actually feel the chill in your body. That's probably when you walk pass a cold spot. It's just a reaction in the atmosphere, nothing to worry about.

Usually (other than the lunar 7th month) there should not be wandering souls around, if there are, they'll probably look lost and aimless. Usually clueless about their direction and are harmless.

This year there'll be 2 7th month in the lunar calendar. But not to worry, it doesn't mean that the fellow 'good brothers' can enjoy a 6o days holiday. They'll be back once the gate closes on the last day of this 7th month. The 2nd 7th month is just a additional month in the lunar calendar and does not have the hungry ghost festival significance.

They also shared with us pictures which were sent in to them for verification of suspect ghostly figures. And with research and investigations, the SP I team were able to affirm that most of the 'ghostly' figures in most pictures were actually accidentally created by dust, or lighting effects, or shadows and simply ignorance of the camera function.

Human's ignorance resulted in many misunderstandings and unnecessary scares. I strongly stress that. Ignorance is the path to stupidity. Read more, improve ur knowledge and apply them. Most things can be proven by applied theories.

Btw I got my bonus of $xxxx! Hehe! Can give us a trip to Phuket and able to save it up as well!

Going to aussie this year end for work, might to able to earn some dollars as well.

Baby's gone off to work now... yep... national day. Duty calls... so.. yup. I'll be spending the day at ah ma's.

Tat day i went to discov ery cen tre, went through a machine scenario which makes me realised that i really want to play a part in protecting my nation. If i dun, who will? It is quite a realistic scenario, and i could feel my tears about to roll down if something bad really happens to our nation as acted out in the scene...

Happy National Day My Lovely Island. Happy working baby... be proud!

Life is always good if you know how to appreciate the downside of it

Holy! DannyBunny is back!! With loads of picture ne!! Welcome back man... :)

Some not so good news from K.... broke up with bf.

I bought a Olympia Dect Phone! Waha! (from china?)

I cooked my first ever pot of spaghetti!! And delivered it to baybay just now! Together with the exotic fruity kitkat and a small bottom of peach wine... yummuuuu!!

And and and we're plotting on another escapade to an island... hiakhiakhiak!~

We went to watch The Lake House and Helen and Baby Fox yesterday. Baybay was quite sad by the outcome of Helen... hugs dear....

I wonder if they sell CK Crave out of Duty Free? I like it!!!

Life is good... i have a beautiful and sometimes eccentric baybay who loves travelling with me and I can cook good pasta. Life is good :)

We came back from LKW le. Loads of fun and loving :)

This space to be filled up!!