Our Victory

I didn't know about the several break up cases until dear told me and she was rather upset by it. Damn... sigh... didn't know that it could cause a pessimism in her....

Maintaining a relationship is like running a marathon. Nobody is born an athlete or perfect lover. We all learn these things along the way in life.

We learn to fall and pick up ourselves
We learn to forgive and forget -
We learn to tolerate - the muscle aches and the irritating things she do to make you angry

ALL these theories applicable to Life, Relationship and running a Marathon.

Being young does have its ups and downs.

You're carefree, without a worry in the world. You can love and hate as you wish. You're still young, you can afford to choose and dump those whom you not fancy. You have all the time in the world to take your pick. To experience love and decide what you like or loathe.

The cons? Maybe immature and not able to handle mistakes and hardship and the ability to tolerate and forgive and forget and may lose a good partner because of these.

Some things go and never come back...

Some things only happen once in a lifetime.

Like time...

You are all that i ever want...

The only one i can picture sharing the rest of my life with..

Openness, tolerance, give & take, compromisation, a shared vision and most importantly, love.

It's not about the whole queer thingy.... every couple, straight or not, goes through the same things. Life and relationship is a long long marathon. You can choose to drop out of the marathon halfway due to the upslope or gruesome terrain or screaming muscles, and you'll never make it to the end point to achieve the glory. And to be true... once you are accustomed to the fact that you think you can't do it, it will be the same for every marathon to come. And you'll get used to the fact that thinking that you can't make it, and the tendency to drop out every time will definitely be there. It's all in the mind....

To be honest, this whole marathon thingy means alot alot alot to me. Cos i never would have been able to complete it last yr if not for her. I would never have done it alone by myself. How could i have persevere without her by my side? That's why the run means alot to me. It proves to me that my mind can be over my body condition and at the same time, not without my perfect companion by my side. I was very happy last yr that i made it. And more happy cos i found the theory to be so much applicable in life and in the relationship between beibei and me.

We actually overtook ALOT of runners along the way. And mind you, more than 90% were fit looking men. Like i've said before, it's all about mind over body. It's whether you think you can do it or not. The feeling is very shiok knowing although we were not physically stronger than these pple, but, we were mentally so much stronger than them.

Victory belongs only to those pple who persevere.... baby... we are one of them... tested and proven....

You know, our aim is not to come in first in the marathon. Our vision is to reach the finishing line, ultimately, no matter how long it takes, to cross the finishing line, together.