What is a perfect wedding?

What is a perfect wedding? One with no execution glitches, lots of well-wishers, beautiful flowers, executed accordingly to cue table, romantic ambience?

or

One with love.

In the show, he said that he attended a small scale wedding. With minimal decorations. Normal setting. When they exchanged vows, both shed tears. And that was all that matters, doesn't it?
The rest are superficial. Only feelings are real...