Live to the max, love to the max.

Just reached home from my Ah Gong's place. Apparently, words from the mouth of my Ah Yi (which is more accurate), Ah Gong's condition is not considered mild, his medical case is now referred to the cancer specialists. And then thereafter, will have to wait for their recommendations on what are the possible measures. Haiz.

Now that Ah Gong has already returned home after the long hospital stay, Ah Ma seems to have revert to her previous impatience towards Ah Gong. Haiz... how man. We all know that she's very concerned about Ah Gong, and likewise Ah Gong is very concerned about Ah Ma also. Their love for each other is so strong, but as I see it, they always display it in a wrong manner. When Ah Gong gestured and told Ah Ma to eat dinner or eat fruits, Ah Ma kept ignoring Ah Gong and just shrugged him off, obviously impatient with his persistence nagging. But you should have seen how worried sick and upset Ah Ma was, when Ah Gong was lying in bed, all frail and pale during his hospital stay. Haiz..... communication communication!!! Patience Patience patience!!!!!

For those already in a long term relationship. Think about it. This is the likely path to walk into when you are already say twenty years into the relationship. How to avoid situations like that? And live your old age happily together, expressing yourself effectively?
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On the way home from their house, I was travelling on CTE(SLE), slow traffic all the way after I entered from Upper Thomson Rd. The LED display showed that there was massive jam all the way till woodlands. After travelling past Mandai, mum and me saw that there was an accident involving 5 vehicles, thus causing the jam. Which reminded me of the incident when dear's car got kissed by the BMW behind. I can still remember my fury and temper explosion when we first felt the impact coming from behind. And I am very sure that I will still explode in this manner if I ever bump (pun intended) into this situation again.

But how to avoid this situation leh? I can be careful yes, I am quite sure I won't bump into other car's rear, because I always keep a good safety distance from the car in front. But how can I prevent pple from bumping into my car's rear and thus avoiding my temper explosion?

Only one way, which is to give way to pple tailgating me.... no other way than this. Life is precious. Cherish your own life and dun let other pple have control to your life and death. YOU control your own life!

Give them the benefit of the doubt. They might be doctors rushing off to attend to emergencies also. Haiz... bear this in mind will you Monkey?

If mum drives in future, you won't want her to bump into driving buggers also right? Remember what Karma is! If you do good, it'll pay off on your loved ones too!