em Loving u without boundaries...: My dear folks at home

Sunday, January 22, 2006

My dear folks at home

Barely 10 mins at the cashier.

But the worst 10 mins i've ever felt there.

Dad, i dun wan you to risk your life over a trivial nobody. It's really not worthy. Yes tat man is a bugger, maybe he needs to be taught a lesson. But i dun wan you to be the person who teach him a lesson. Let somebody else do it. Probably somebody whose time is up, or maybe someone who has more stamina than him. This is wat my baby made ma realise. Just stand back... back away from it all. Dun let your efforts all these months go to waste and agitate your heart once again, it's so not worth it. You have better things to do than to deal with none important things like this.

Dun fall into his trap... it could be a test from heaven for all you know. And you fall right into the pit. Dun lose your life for something so silly!!! The gods will be rolling over the floor laughing when they hear this man!! OK dad??? Haiz.... make us so worried when your whole face turn white as sheet!!!

And mum also almost quarreled with the man... haiz.... she was trying so hard to stand up for papa, by sounding firm and without starting another quarrel. Good for you mum! But i think you need to adjust the way you communicate with papa. He is no longer a child le, so your method of talking to him can't be of the reprimanding sort!!! Be more patient.... let him know that you are on his side, but also let him know how he could have reacted more appropriately.... let him weight the pros and cons of his actions, and the various options tat he could have opt for instead. mum you must be more patient when you are talking to him as he have a short temper. Dun end up trying to make him better, but in the end end up in a quarrel instead ok!?

I love you guys......

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